Dealing with a death of a loved one is a strange thing.
It effects people in different ways of course.
Some I’ve known, simply cannot face it, others have a more pragmatic outlook.
For me, it’s fascinating.
Not so much the act of passing away, but more what comes after it.
To me, I believe their clock simply stops.
“I wonder what they’d think of this film?” or “That artist?” Perhaps explains it best for my view.
I don’t believe they’d have any view of it.
When their clock stops, they simply carry on, in spirit, with the same experiences and memories as they had when they were alive, never crossing the line into the future, of which they didn’t experience.
I don’t believe they ever know they have passed on.
Their place of rest interests me also.
As many do, I find it very moving that their place of rest maybe a place where they can visit, where they may be able to hear or even see, a loved one visiting them.
With this in mind, a youtube page I love watching, is Arthur Dark’s – Hollywood Graveyard (not his real name of course)
https://www.youtube.com/@HollywoodGraveyard/videos
Fascinating to see the resting places of people that, in life, were absolutely unapproachable and often, world reknown.
To know that a once famous person is resting right where they visit in the videos, often a person who we grew up watching/listening to, are right there in front of them, without any of the fame that was around them, always amazes me.
One final thing I like about final resting places, are those head stones, with the person’s picture on.
In victorian times, they used to take photographs with the person who’d passed away before burial, often with their family members.
Macabre it may seem to others, but I love to see what the person looked like during their lifetime.
Odd some would say, but I pay great respect to people and their resting places. Famous or not.